Locating them is a breeze — finding out how to tune them may prove a lot more complicated. Because nerds are stimulated by all things tech and progression, conventions are a prime spot to meet nerdy lasses. Spots like these, as well as online forums for the tech-oriented, will earn you a date with a nerdy chick almost instantly.
Discuss where the IT world is headed and partake in some intellectual discourse on the same. There are many different ways to meet a nerdy girl; one of them is using nerdy dating sites. You could pay a visit to date sites to quench your thirst for a geeky lady.
It should probably be in your interest to find one solely because you need someone with similar interests, and not fulfill some sexual fantasy. However, the choice is yours, and several dating sites provide an easy to navigate platform for you to find this lady of your dreams. It may be easier to meet one online, presumably because you have a chance at selecting physical attributes.
You may choose your perfect nerdy girlfriend based on height, skin tone, eye color, and the rest. These characteristics will be overwhelming to find on ladies you meet physically, but you could dismiss one or find the right one almost instantly online.
One trick to overcoming shyness is to imagine the worst thing that could possible happen and ask yourself: would it really be the end of the world. Be ridiculous when you imagine these situations.
The absurdity of the situation will make you laugh and feel much better. Well, she could be a vampire. Not the sexy, Kristen Stewart kind but the kind that needs to cut up your corpse and use your blood to open a portal to Hell so that she can release her demon brethren to feed on all mankind. Do you really think that could happen?
There is no way that girl is that terrifying. Put yourself in situations that make you uncomfortable. As with so many things in life, practice is a great way to get good at anything.
Try to go to parties for example. And don't just be a fly on the wall! Get out and talk to people. To point is to practice and get comfortable spending time around girls. You can also try the instant immersion method. Take a dance class or a yoga class. This will help you make female friends but it will also get you used to spending time with them very quickly. If any of your guy friends question your sexuality when you do this, point out that now you get to spend hours every week hanging out with girls in tight clothing.
Sometimes we feel shy because we feel like the people around us are better than us. But you are not those people You are unique and cool and only you can offer the world the amazing things you have to offer. For example, that jock guy that seems to get all the girls?
Yeah, he's got unpleasant things about him too. Girls will realize this. Especially the ones worth being with. They will see that maybe he's more social or more handsome, but they'll also see that you're smarter or more stable. So don't compare yourself to him because eventually girls are going to want what you have, not what he has.
You could be the next Steve Jobs. You don't know. Don't doubt yourself or try to change yourself. You could be denying everyone the next iPad by trying to be someone else. Method 4. Just ask. At the end of the day, the most important thing is to just ask a girl out. Asking her out in-person, rather than through a text or email will earn you points.
Unless your digital method is something really special and epic. Ask in private, not it public. Asking her out somewhere private rather than somewhere public will make both of you feel more comfortable. Have a date idea before you ask her out. This is poor planning and will make you look a little silly. Ask out a non-nerdy girl. The key to asking out non-nerdy girls is to make them know that they are smart, worthwhile, and helpful.
You don't want her to feel like you look down on her or only like her for her looks. That is often what scares girls away from dating. Don't rub it in their face if you are smarter even if you are, pretend that you don't think or know that and try to show her the ways that she makes you a better person. Example 1:"So we've been hanging out a bit lately and I know we don't always understand each other, but I would really like to get to know you more. I know that band you like is going to be in town next month; why don't we get tickets and go see them?
You're kind and smart and I really respect how hard you work to help others. I'd like the chance to see more of that side of you. What do you say? How about we drop by that animal shelter this weekend and see if they need a hand?
Most of the time, I think you're way smarter than me. I want to spend more time with you, get to talk more about the world and how you see things. What do you think? Would you be willing to head to the library with me this weekend? We've got that big test coming up and I could use a study-buddy. Ask out a totally nerdy girl. This is a little easier, because believe us: she's already looking for a nerdy guy to date.
Emphasize that you love having someone that understands you and that can keep up with you or beat you. Come up with a date idea that you know she'll love and you're set.
Nerdy girl Example 1: "You know, I really think you're amazing and fun and I'd love to get to spend more time getting to know you. That new Art of Video Games exhibit just opened at the museum and I would really like it if you went with me. Maybe we can get some dinner afterwards? My treat. The comic shop is having a sale this weekend. Do you wanna comb through the bins with me and then grab some lunch? Maybe not through all of space and time, but that weekend at the con was pretty crazy.
I'd like to have a few more adventures with you, if I can. So, what do you say: will you be my Companion? Believe us, everybody gets rejected.
Method 5. If she's nerdy, don't question her nerdiness. Don't test her knowledge or treat her like she's a lesser geek if she hasn't been doing nerdy stuff for as long or if she is nerdy in different ways than you. She enjoys and loves things and you enjoy and love things and that is cool and you should be happy.
Don't ever lord your intelligence over her. She's probably just as smart if not smarter than you in a few areas. If she was really so dumb or incompetent, you wouldn't want to be with her.
Respect her, appreciate the things she's good at or knows about, and give her the opportunity to show you those things. Definitely don't be mean about it or trivializing if she doesn't know something. Don't use pick up lines. You're doing both of you a disservice. However, we do exist, many of us are attractive, and as a whole we are largely sought after while being hideously misrepresented.
Before I can tell you where to find us or how to date us, we must first establish WHY you want to date a geek girl. After speaking to various people who are searching for their player 2, I have found that it typically boils down to 3 things. If the answer is 1, fair enough! Having common interests can be a wonderful thing in a relationship!
So, with that in mind, onto my next point…. Wherever nerdy things are. Comic book stores, conventions, DnD groups, you name it and we are likely there. Great place to start. You know another great place to start? Approaching the girls that frequent these places like people with similar interests regardless of their genitals. We play the same games you do, contribute to the same Discords, and frequent the same forums to leave bug reports or feedback on the predominant meta of competitive online games.
And from there, who knows! In fact, I know many a geek girl that has ended up with a man that has wildly different interests. While she stays at home inking comics or playing Dragon Age, he might be found watching footy or enjoying beers with his mates.
In no way have these girls ever been put off by having different interests than their partners, largely due to the fact that they have found other things about the relationship to value more highly than a shared love of all things nerdy. I have even heard many a geek girl say that she is hesitant to date geek guys, because of the way they have been treated by them in the past. This is especially true of my female friends that cosplay! Another unfortunate truth is that not all women are straight, even the ones that like all things nerdy… Especially the ones that like all things nerdy.
Sometimes a geek girl just wants to wear a cute costume and make out with other cute geek girls. It seems, at least to me, that there a lot more geek boys in want of a geek girl, than vice versa. Unfortunately, this means there is more competition in the dating pool, and that a lot of geek girls are likely to already be in serious relationships.
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